• Imagine

    Allow your dream to lead you

  • Commit

    Begin the adventure, start your revolution

  • Catalyze

    Create with help from the WR and its members

  • Manifest

    Integrate your creation into your success

  • Share

    Apply your wisdom to changing your world

What Drama Takes You Out? – Part 3, the Rescuer

January 18, 2010

The rescuer is the third player in the Drama Triangle, and embodies the darker qualities of the magician archetype. His magic is his attempt to fix or change someone rather than address his own emotions or needs.

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The rescuer is in fear of the anger of the persecutor and the sadness of the victim. [...]

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What Drama Takes You Out? – Part 2, the Persecutor

January 15, 2010

Persecutor
Every victim needs a persecutor. In the Drama Triangle, the bully is in this role and is the one who blames the victim, criticizes him or her and enables the behavior of the rescuer, who we’ll discuss in the next post.

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It’s easy to see the persecutor is a tyrant warrior. His power is [...]

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What Drama Takes You Out? Part 1- the Victim

January 12, 2010

How to use the drama of life to enrich your life
Are you constantly upset with someone or yourself over a relationship? Is there a person that pushes your buttons or you can’t understand why he or she doesn’t listen to you? Is life screwing you?
While most of us have had these experiences at one time [...]

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Space – What Men Need

December 15, 2009

I wrote a post about Sam Martin’s “Manspace” on our Men’s Work blog – A Journey of Integrity.
Understanding that as men we need space and it isn’t necessarily an avoidance of the femine, but serves the nurturing of the masculine – will empower both sexes. In working with myself and other men over the years, [...]

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Deep Healing, Deep Transformation

December 9, 2009

People often ask what is the processes of the Whole Adventure, or as Joseph Campbell called it the Hero’s Journey. Beyond being our own personal mythological journey of transformation, it is a process of unraveling, disassembling and reorganization. A man in my men’s group sent me a link to the series of three paintings by [...]

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10 Ways to Heal Loneliness Now

November 17, 2009

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Are you lonely? If you are, you’re a part of a growing percentage of Americans according to a recent Pfizer Journal study. The fact that Zoloft®, one of the most prescribed antidepressants is manufactured by Pfizer, and Pfizer just settled a $2.3 billion case with with the Department of Justice does make one [...]

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How Do You Hold Space?

October 23, 2009

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Have you ever been around someone who is attempting to hold the space, really consciously hold it? It can be tense.  But “holding” of a space is not actually a holding—it’s the opposite. You make it inviting, so others want to really show up, be fully present, and everyone gets the [...]

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How to Transform Emotions Into Power

October 13, 2009

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What makes you powerful? I propose it isn’t your biceps; it’s your emotions. Your power derives from you expressing your emotions. I’m not talking about the rants we can go on, I am talking about those feelings that are difficult to express. In the expression of your vulnerability, you are powerful.
When you reveal [...]

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Hang It Out There

October 9, 2009

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Yes, I am saying take a risk. I would add the distinction of saying don’t try to overcome your fear, grief or anger; just let the risk(s) be there. With the risk, speak your deep truths. When I try to overcome something to do something else, I usually take myself out. [...]

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